Dating/Marriage has gone through many phases but nowadays its more of a time pass. Neither people value current relationships nor do they maintain the old ones. New bond create new relationships. After a while, then hell breaks loose most of the time. My mom keeps telling me stories and incidents from her own experience. And this is what I gathered. Simple piece of thought but I found it very useful.
Initially when you are going around with someone, you need to do a lot of proving. As in proving your capabilities, your loyalties, and your stability. But later on, you don’t need to prove anything but instead you need to sustain what you have proven. That’s the time when the real challenge begins. Otherwise don’t set expectations. Because reaching at the top is comparatively easy but staying isn’t. There’s is always someone to pull you down as and when people get the chance. Love in its initial stages is very colorful, with lots of frills and show and promises a lot. But as the bond solidifies this same love transforms itself into trust, compatibility. But many feel that love is dying, he doesn’t take me out, doesn’t give me gifts. It’s not a man’s endeavor any more; to keep the romance alive the woman also has to pitch in and sometimes take the lead. What I feel is without comparing you to his sister, mother or any other female in his life, you as a wife need to become indispensable over a period of time. That is what will make a marriage really successful you should be his pride with out giving competition or bad vibes to any of the existing relationships. You should be a good natured soul whom people can look up to and not look down upon.
Initially when you are going around with someone, you need to do a lot of proving. As in proving your capabilities, your loyalties, and your stability. But later on, you don’t need to prove anything but instead you need to sustain what you have proven. That’s the time when the real challenge begins. Otherwise don’t set expectations. Because reaching at the top is comparatively easy but staying isn’t. There’s is always someone to pull you down as and when people get the chance. Love in its initial stages is very colorful, with lots of frills and show and promises a lot. But as the bond solidifies this same love transforms itself into trust, compatibility. But many feel that love is dying, he doesn’t take me out, doesn’t give me gifts. It’s not a man’s endeavor any more; to keep the romance alive the woman also has to pitch in and sometimes take the lead. What I feel is without comparing you to his sister, mother or any other female in his life, you as a wife need to become indispensable over a period of time. That is what will make a marriage really successful you should be his pride with out giving competition or bad vibes to any of the existing relationships. You should be a good natured soul whom people can look up to and not look down upon.
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