27 June, 2009
12 June, 2009
Chunmun - My new friend
it rained a few days back. hmm... precisely on 10th of this month. I took these snaps with this little birdie. Her name is Chunmun. The owner of the bird is a girl from our building and rescued the bird when she was just a baby. Its a baby sparrow. Sparrows are pretty rare in Hyderabad. but a nice little cutie.
09 June, 2009
God Bharai function
with my husband
waiting to start
my mother in law blessing me
guest of hounour
These pics are a few of them from the 7th month event. In India once an expecting mother is nearing the completion of her 7 months of pregnancy, there is a huge function wherein married ladies come and bless her. This is known as "God Bharai". Ladies bless the expectant mother with 5 diffrent types of fruits and also a gift (optional). They also remove nazar (evil eye) to protect her from all possible mishaps. A sumptuous meal is prepared and first the mother has to eat and only then can the rest of the family, friends and near an dear ones can start eating.
I got lots and lots of blessings as well as gifts. Lots of sarees actually. Love sarees a lot. My pallu of the sareee was filled with fruits and gifts; so much that I cudn't even get up. My husband was the official photographer of the event. Did his best to feel comforfortable among so many ladies. my fater in law and my husband were the only 2 men in the house. poor guys!!
Now its only 2 months left. but the most 2 important months. And then child caring begins OMG
02 June, 2009
Golden Words
"Relationships are always tricky ---- whether its with ur beau, BFF, or mom. The key to healthy relationships is to keep the basic rules in mind. Never take anyone u love for granted. Thats the most common and worst mistake. Give back, chip in and be thankful. "
My Mother (Tuesday, June 2, 2009 7:00 PM) Via email
My Mother (Tuesday, June 2, 2009 7:00 PM) Via email
My Addiction
People ask me “what makes me feel sexy?” I have a very simple answer “it’s my husband who makes me feels sexy”. It’s neither clothes, nor lingerie, nor money, nor a gorgeous body nothing. It is he, who makes all the difference to me. He is my world. I always think about him. I always thought about him. And will always think about him. I am just 3 and 1/2 years old in the industry but have seen best of the best relationships go kaput.
People ask me how come I do not drink as in consume any liquor or do smoking or drugs. That is simple because I addicted to my husband. Loving him is an addiction to me. It started slowly but with time it has become an addiction, an obsession. I simply can’t do without him. I need him all the time during depression, during happiness, when I am alone or when I am with people. ALL THE TIME.
People ask me how come I do not drink as in consume any liquor or do smoking or drugs. That is simple because I addicted to my husband. Loving him is an addiction to me. It started slowly but with time it has become an addiction, an obsession. I simply can’t do without him. I need him all the time during depression, during happiness, when I am alone or when I am with people. ALL THE TIME.
01 June, 2009
A piece of advice
Dating/Marriage has gone through many phases but nowadays its more of a time pass. Neither people value current relationships nor do they maintain the old ones. New bond create new relationships. After a while, then hell breaks loose most of the time. My mom keeps telling me stories and incidents from her own experience. And this is what I gathered. Simple piece of thought but I found it very useful.
Initially when you are going around with someone, you need to do a lot of proving. As in proving your capabilities, your loyalties, and your stability. But later on, you don’t need to prove anything but instead you need to sustain what you have proven. That’s the time when the real challenge begins. Otherwise don’t set expectations. Because reaching at the top is comparatively easy but staying isn’t. There’s is always someone to pull you down as and when people get the chance. Love in its initial stages is very colorful, with lots of frills and show and promises a lot. But as the bond solidifies this same love transforms itself into trust, compatibility. But many feel that love is dying, he doesn’t take me out, doesn’t give me gifts. It’s not a man’s endeavor any more; to keep the romance alive the woman also has to pitch in and sometimes take the lead. What I feel is without comparing you to his sister, mother or any other female in his life, you as a wife need to become indispensable over a period of time. That is what will make a marriage really successful you should be his pride with out giving competition or bad vibes to any of the existing relationships. You should be a good natured soul whom people can look up to and not look down upon.
Initially when you are going around with someone, you need to do a lot of proving. As in proving your capabilities, your loyalties, and your stability. But later on, you don’t need to prove anything but instead you need to sustain what you have proven. That’s the time when the real challenge begins. Otherwise don’t set expectations. Because reaching at the top is comparatively easy but staying isn’t. There’s is always someone to pull you down as and when people get the chance. Love in its initial stages is very colorful, with lots of frills and show and promises a lot. But as the bond solidifies this same love transforms itself into trust, compatibility. But many feel that love is dying, he doesn’t take me out, doesn’t give me gifts. It’s not a man’s endeavor any more; to keep the romance alive the woman also has to pitch in and sometimes take the lead. What I feel is without comparing you to his sister, mother or any other female in his life, you as a wife need to become indispensable over a period of time. That is what will make a marriage really successful you should be his pride with out giving competition or bad vibes to any of the existing relationships. You should be a good natured soul whom people can look up to and not look down upon.
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